I am 39, single, never married. I have a 15 y/o daughter. I've dated, but not exclusively because didn't want to bring just anyone into my daughter's life.

For the past 3 years, I have been caring for my daughter because she has a mental illness. During this time, I haven't thought about dating. Now my daughter is hospitalized for an extended time, and I am wanting to date again. About a month ago, I had this dream where my friend's husband was trying to fix me up with this man. I couldn't see the man's face. Then, the next night or so I had another dream that this man with curly hair was on his knees and was proposing to me.

I haven't been going to church regularly, but after the dreams, I felt "led" to go to church. I went there, and there was the man in my dreams! He is exactly my type--tall, caramel complexioned and curly haired. He is also muscular. I couldn't get him out of my mind the whole service.

I didn't see him for 2 weeks. I had been going to a Bible study, and again I began thinking of this man. I prayed, 'God, if this is not meant to be, don't let me see him again'. I again felt 'led' to go this Bible study and there he was! This man is not only good looking, but he is a committed Christian and kind. And I have developed this stupid crush on him.

The bad part is that he is not attracted to me. I hate unrequited love.