Don't be upset by what one person said about you! Everyone has different opinions about beauty, and that's a good thing. Even if this guy didn't find you that attractive, it was insensitive and wrong of him to rip you apart like that. He probably just likes judging people and making them feel bad! Besides, there is no such thing as perfect. You're beautiful :)

Posted by Anna on Sunday, 04/29/07 - 10:23pm

provide the link so we can see hun

Posted by rachel on Monday, 04/30/07 - 1:07pm

If you're going to put yourself out there like that for "ratings," then you got what you asked for. You have to expect that one may not "rate" you favorably. Be more humble next time.

Posted by ugly on Monday, 04/30/07 - 9:50pm

...I just had a guy who I thought was one of my best friends tell me he liked me a few days ago after I confessed I liked him. It was one of the best nights of this year. The next day, he told me it was actually a *tie* between me and another girl. I met her--she's blonde, perky, and dumb. I just couldn't deal with the fact that he compares us (talks to me about it) on EVERYTHING...including CONVERSATION. Apparently "what?? OMG, like, totally!!" is equivalent to an in-depth discussion of, well, anything and everything. I talked to him about this last night. Apparently, she's everything he always knew he wanted...and when I said that if he dated her, I couldn't respect him, because what she is and what she pretends to be is demeaning to women, he said that of course we'd be friends and he didn't even know what he wanted. Today he pretended he was working when he told me what he was doing, but he was actually spending the day with her. I guess I have my answer. Our friendship is worth no more than a ditzy smile, bubbly fake personality, tits, and ass.

IN other words, I sympathize. Don't let them bring you down. It's hard...but guys aren't worth hating yourself.

Posted by Liz on Friday, 05/4/07 - 2:17am

so basically you feel superior to this other girl and bitter that your friend chose her instead of you?
...and instead of being happy for your friend you decide to put him in an awkward position by putting your friendship on the line.

well as soon as you gave him the ultimatum it was clear you were setting yourself up to be second best, and judging on your reactions i'd say your friend made the right choice.

Posted by o btw, stop hijacking other people's threads with irrelevant craziness kthxbai on Friday, 05/4/07 - 2:27pm