i broke up with my boyfriend think that i was ruining his college experience. who wants to be tied down to a sophmore in highschool when they are a college student? i can understand completely his desicion. He just doesnt want to hold you back. Maybe some time off and later go back to him and tell him how much you miss/need him.

Posted by curly girl on Monday, 05/14/07 - 8:28pm

thanks. im giving it time but its like... he's not holdin me back from anything. his perception of college is some long crazy party. idunno. i guess he just wont understand unless he experiences it himself. i wish he did better in highschool and went to a university.

Posted by original bomber on Wednesday, 05/16/07 - 6:14pm

i think you just need some way to show him that college4 isnt one party and that he's the only guy for you. Maybe spill our your heart to him face to face or in a letter. Plus if you reallly want him back maybe shed a tear or two telling him it hurt so much inside knowing you guys arent together

Posted by curly girl on Wednesday, 05/16/07 - 6:18pm

i cried my eyes out. i went on my knees n begged him. it was my first heartbreak so i didnt know where to draw the line, i poured out my guts to him. i felt like dying and laid in bed for a whole week and didnt go to class. now i just started backing off... i guess only time will tell if we were ever meant to be.

Posted by original bomber on Wednesday, 05/16/07 - 6:31pm

well i wish you two all the best. I really hope it works out for you both. Heartbreak sucks and i know that all too well. Right now only time will tell.

Posted by curly girl on Wednesday, 05/16/07 - 8:11pm