As a gay man, I could write the same thing about my situation except mine is six years younger! Ain't it painful?

Posted by hey! me too on Saturday, 05/19/07 - 9:43am

Don't feel bad, I was in love with one of my best friends (a guy) for over 4 years, yet I never was able to tell him, and he never seemed to love me the same way. Then he told me one day that he was gay. I cried...sometimes, I still wish it wasn't true or that he could make an exception just this once for me.

We can't always choose love...sometimes it chooses us.

Posted by Sometimes Love chooses us. on Saturday, 05/19/07 - 5:42pm

i understand exactly.

Posted by ... on Saturday, 05/19/07 - 6:22pm

I'm a woman and I'm head over heels for my best friend, a gay boy.

I'm 10 years older than he is to top it all off and like Sometimes Love I have shed my share of tears over him and I could have written this sentence "sometimes, I still wish it wasn't true or that he could make an exception just this once for me."

It's hard because he still mentions chicks being hot, and sometimes it doesn't seem like he's quite as gay as he says he is.

As long as he's in my life, I don't think I'll be able to love anyone else, but I'm not willing to let him go yet. Hopefully I get it figured out.

Good luck to you all.

Posted by me too on Thursday, 07/5/07 - 10:11am

tell her how you feel!
tell her how amazing and beautiful she is!
she's your friend!, even if she didn't feel the same way about you she'd still be there for you as your friend,
youve got nothing to lose,
and possibly something amazing to gain!

Posted by sha on Thursday, 07/5/07 - 9:21pm