Maybe you felt like something was lacking in one of your relationships? Sometimes emotionally pained people confuse the intimacy of sex for genuine caring, because someone is with you right at that moment, holding you and kissing you and you know for that person, at that moment, there is no where they would rather be than right there with you.

Maybe you dont feel like you are loved?

Is it something you would want to talk to him about?

You seem very regretful about it, which is why I think you may be seeking affection outside of your relationship.

Posted by anonymous on Friday, 06/1/07 - 2:54am

I'm too scared to tell him because I would be so lost if he left me. I love him more than life itself. I was just so lonely. It was so not me. I've always been with him we've lived together for five years.

Posted by while my boyfriend was away on Friday, 06/1/07 - 2:57am

I was away on for 13 weeks on a project in the midwest. My last weekend there I fucked up and cheated on my wife. Suffice to say that I most definitely learned my lesson when it came to cheating. I lost my wife and my friends.
As to telling him, thats entirely up to you. In closing, if you love him, and he loves you as much as you think, this isn't something that can't be overcome.

Posted by Mike on Friday, 06/1/07 - 9:08am

you fucking whore.. you don't deserve to be with him. tell him now. i can't believe sluts like you.. makes me sick.

go die.

Posted by me, a non cheater on Saturday, 06/2/07 - 3:57am

I dont think you should tell him. You seem to care about him and like you want to keep the relationship intact.Breakups and cheating are the crises and commotion that young relationships are made of. Everybody is doing it.if cheating is brought into a relationship's mix, and you want to keep the relationship together, the first step is to stop cheating and the second step is to shut up. Just think: Be still my cheating heart and be quiet my talking mouth. Dishonesty is perhaps UNDERVALUED because cheating is bad enough on its own without the aftermath. When my gf left for a month long trip, I hooked up with some old flames over that period and I took care of my needs...just sexual conquest(Im a guy). I felt really bad at first, and still kind of do, but it was just sex, not love, so I got myself to stop cheating and I kept it to myself and all is well.Dont feel so bad, you seem like a good person and sex is natural. Just try to improve on your habits and stay with your bf.people seem to forget that sex and love are different things

Posted by alpha on Wednesday, 09/5/07 - 3:19am