It's natural to feel like that. It's not as if you acted on it.
Posted by Annaleena on Sunday, 06/10/07 - 2:39am
First off- how old are you?
Second- It's your friends crush. They're not dating and they certainly aren't married. Tell her how you feel (you might want to be a little less... descriptive) and see what she says.
Posted by JH on Wednesday, 06/13/07 - 4:53am
I did it, I lost my virginity, and took the virginity of my best friends ex boyfriend in college. There are many reasons I regret this:
1.After that, everyone I knew was split into two groups, the people who forgave us and the people who didn't. My extended group of friends fell apart over it, and it ruined two years of college for everyone.
2.You don't want your first time, or any time, to be associated with hurting a friend.
3. Physical attraction, while powerful, has very little long term substance. He and I stayed friends for a while, but I think it was only to make ourselves feel better.
And the sex really wasn't even good! It was not worth it!
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Posted by op on Saturday, 06/9/07 - 11:54pm
It's natural to feel like that. It's not as if you acted on it.
Posted by Annaleena on Sunday, 06/10/07 - 2:39am
First off- how old are you?
Second- It's your friends crush. They're not dating and they certainly aren't married. Tell her how you feel (you might want to be a little less... descriptive) and see what she says.
Posted by JH on Wednesday, 06/13/07 - 4:53am
I did it, I lost my virginity, and took the virginity of my best friends ex boyfriend in college. There are many reasons I regret this:
1.After that, everyone I knew was split into two groups, the people who forgave us and the people who didn't. My extended group of friends fell apart over it, and it ruined two years of college for everyone.
2.You don't want your first time, or any time, to be associated with hurting a friend.
3. Physical attraction, while powerful, has very little long term substance. He and I stayed friends for a while, but I think it was only to make ourselves feel better.
And the sex really wasn't even good! It was not worth it!
Posted by Lizzy on Saturday, 07/14/07 - 5:08pm