I worry about that. . . my boyfriend and I are going to do it soon. . . and I just know its not going to work like we want it to.

Posted by m on Tuesday, 06/19/07 - 3:33pm

If you both relax and trust each other it's most likely gonna be a great experience. First time a girl is just tighter, so take it slow and if it doesn't fit first time, try again later. Make sure you're really excited when trying and don't worry if it's not exactly what you expected. Give each other a chance to learn what you like.
Enjoy!

Posted by sandra on Wednesday, 06/20/07 - 5:34am

trust me it's normal. it took my boyfriend and i 3 times until it actually worked. don't worry about it it's natural and you're doing it together so it's amazing regardless of what happens.

Posted by molly on Wednesday, 06/20/07 - 11:46pm

it will work. the first few times are just difficult, especially if you are nervous or not entirely comfortable with each other. make sure to communicate and try to enjoy yourself

Posted by don't worry on Thursday, 06/21/07 - 4:22pm

Awww, my first time I was so nervous that it wouldn't fit either, and when I finally relaxed a bit, -he- started freaking out and couldn't keep up his erection.
But, in the end, it worked with a little patience.
Oh, and this is cute now, but for a long time it was just one of those akward memories that make you want to shrivel up and snuff it...

Posted by ... on Tuesday, 07/3/07 - 4:34pm

hmm, i've never had that problem. what you gotta do first is finger yourself or let him finger you to stretch you out a bit so he fits. you can deliver a baby from there so sex is a piece of cake. you also gotta make sure you're wet enough (naturally or with lube) so he can just slide right in.

Posted by anonie on Wednesday, 09/3/08 - 1:58pm

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Posted by fgdfg on Friday, 10/10/08 - 9:21pm