Yes, well I find my boyfriend is usually more horny than me, but sometimes it's the other way round. I think it just depends I suppose. I tend to feel rejected if I am in the mood and he isn't and I can feel a bit stupid in a way, so I know where you are coming from :)

Posted by Christina on Saturday, 06/23/07 - 12:57pm

I like to think that my boyfriends are more horney than me, but it never seems to be that way. I understand. I was always the one to pressure things. If you knew me in real life, you'd never guess it, which always surprises my boyfriends.

I'm single now, so I guess I just have to get over it.

Posted by Emily on Saturday, 06/23/07 - 1:48pm

Actually how often and to what extent someone can be aroused varies greatly from person to person, regardless of gender.

It is a common misconception that males are more 'horny' generally than females, it just seems more expected and therefore socially acceptable for males to display or be honest about their level of arrousal. This does not mean men on average have more active sex drives than women.

You might well have a more active sex drive than your boyfriend, but it isn't something you should feel ashamed of. You just have to deal with it, understand that if he doesn't want to then he won't enjoy it if you convince him to, and it should be mutual.

Enjoy the times when you both want to fool around :)

Posted by Helpful Echo on Saturday, 06/23/07 - 9:08pm

Girls are MUCH hornier than men. To be honest. I really think this. Girls are just more lady like about it. Honestly, I think about sex everyday. Just talking about sex makes me want sex!!! Gotta go...

Posted by Canadian Gal on Monday, 08/27/07 - 10:28pm