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I am having a hard time with my boyfriend.
I feel like I am doing so much and he is doing so little.
It's the big things like sex as well as the little things like buying coffee.
I guess I just don't feel like his girlfriend.
I don't expect him to buy me things every day. Not even every week.
But if he picked up the dinner check a bit more often, or even bought me coffee once and a while, it would be nice.
The biggest issue is the sex.
I don't feel special when we have sex.
I don't feel like it's something special between us. I feel replaceable.
I always do what he wants in bed, which is ALWAYS a blow job.
I hate them.
Sometimes, when I'm in the mood, I enjoy giving them.
Bust most of the time I hate them.
And he never does anything for me.
Nothing.
It feels like sex is always about him, and I am just there.
He has never tried to make me feel good. Just me.
I'm tired of it, and I don't know what to do.
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4 comments (post a new comment)Have you asked yourself what makes yuo stay in this relationship, if it makes you feel like this?
Posted by sandra on Monday, 06/25/07 - 4:10am
Well if I were in your predicument, I think I would talk to my boyfriend about my concerns. Cause he should be making you feel happy and special. I understand about the sex. Sex to my boyfriend seems to be much more important than it does to me, and he always wants blow jobs as well, but I usually refuse to give them to him. My boyfriend hasn't taken me out to dinner once, and we have been together for over a year, it makes you feel sad. Sometimes you want them to suprise you or take you out occasionally. So I feel I can relate to you. I think talking to him about it would help, and hopefully he'll do more for you. If not, then I personally think you should go your separate ways.
Posted by Christina on Monday, 06/25/07 - 5:40am
If you don't like giving blow jobs, you should communicate that to him and see how he reacts. There's no reason for you to do anything sexual that you don't enjoy, especially if you feel like he's taking you for granted.
Posted by Liz on Monday, 07/2/07 - 8:44pm
Well if I were in you situation i would tell him how you feel and if he shrugs it off or ignores it or doesn't make an attempt to change dump him. What's the worse that could happen, besides him realizing how great he had it. You sound like you could do a lot better for yourself.
You too Christina.
Posted by K.Couture on Wednesday, 07/11/07 - 9:25am