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Posted On Friday, June 29, 2007
i'm in love with a guy i've never met in person...am i settin myself up for something really stupid because he's coming stay with me for a week in july and then i'm goin stay with him for a week after but he doesn't know i really love him and idk if i want to tell him before he comes or that might weird him out or he might tell me something i don't want to hear back or idk i'm just confused...what do you think i should do?? oh yeah he lives half way around the country but i've known him for about a year we just haven't ever gotten to meet before
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5 comments (post a new comment)Um...DON'T.
I know it may seem like love...but until you've met someone in person, you can't be sure.
Make sure you have someone with you when you first meet him, and for the first few days, until you are COMPLETELY sure you are comfortable with him.
Posted by Anonymous on Saturday, 06/30/07 - 5:09pm
...You're just setting yourself up to get raped, hun.
I suggest meeting the guy in a very very crowded place and not letting him stay at your home. I don't want to see you on the missing list on the news.
Posted by Confused on Saturday, 06/30/07 - 7:28pm
u've never met!! umm he might just come and rape u and then kill u, u better be careful!!...and if u do decide to go through with it and meet him u should t least tell him u loe hi in person
Posted by lu lu on Saturday, 06/30/07 - 8:25pm
...how old are you?
Posted by Hm on Sunday, 07/1/07 - 11:58pm
terrible idea. there are so many different scenarios that could happen, such as all these previous comments have implied. but the meeting could go very well and then as soon as he gets back home he'll stop talking to you and ignoring your phone calls. and you'll just end up getting hurt in the end.
if you do end up meeting him, MAKE SURE you are with someone when you first meet him. it makes me really nervous for you.
also, don't tell him you love him, especially before you meet him. you've never even seen him in person. you don't know his true personality yet.
good luck with all of this. and please be safe.
Posted by lb on Tuesday, 07/3/07 - 11:45am