Okay, so my problem starts at the beginning of the summer. My cousin Ken is dating this girl named Hannah. Hannah has a younger brother named Phillip. I think Phillip and I came close to going on a date once or twice this summer, but at the last minute, he'd have to work or he got grounded for something. It seemed like he was into it at the time, he even called me 'babe' once. I really liked him. And I think I'll always have a soft spot for him. He's not the player type, he's really shy and sweet. He'd stop talking to me for a little while, and then I'd message him just to ask how he was doing, and he'd say that we should hang out. But then when it came time to hang out he'd blow it off. Meanwhile, I'd talk to his best friend Jack. I'd talked to Jack some whenever I wasn't messaging Phillip. We were gonna hook up, but for some reason or another we didn't. Phillip I was interested in as a boyfriend, but Jack would've just been a hook-up. The only time that I'd talk to Jack about hooking up is when I thought that nothing was gonna happen with Phillip.

School started last week. Sophmore year. I have my friend Andrew in some of my classes. Last year him and I had this love hate relationship. He'd act like I annoyed him to no end, but we were friends. This year He's friendly towards me, and kind of flirty, in that kingergartener sort of teasing way. My friend thinks that he's flirting with me and that he might like me. I'm pretty sure that I like him.

Friday night at a football game. Jack and Phillip were there. I asked Phillip a few questions about the game, and he very sweetly answered them. After the game some of us were hanging out in the parking lot. I talked to Jack (one of the first times in person, since we'd always talked about hooking up through myspace or texting. He called me once to hook up) a little bit. When it was time for them to leave, he opened his arms for a hug, and I gave him one and jokingly told him to have fun with the boys. He told me that he'd be in town all night, and that I should call him if I got 'bored'. Well the next night, I was home alone for a few hours and I was texting him to see if he wanted to come over for some fun, but he didn't have a ride. So he said he'd text me the next day. It's been two days. Jack really digs the whole "hard to get thing" so I think I may try and do that now.

I don't know what to do, or which guy to go for. My ultimate I think would be to date Phillip, but I don't really see that happening, because I don't think he's that into it, or else he wouldn't have blown me off. Then I'd like to hook up with Jack, but I'm afraid that will make me like him, and I don't think that he'd be into me as a girlfriend. Then there's Andrew. I think I like him, but I don't know.

So I guess my question is:

Which guy(s) do I go for? And what should I do to try and get them?


Thanks guys, I really appreciate you reading all of that, and advice is sooooooo appreciated.