I'm sorry, but this really doesn't sound like a good idea. You may not care about the age difference, but if you guys have sex it's legally rape. If your parents decided to press charges, it could ruin his life. He would have to register as a sex offender.

Not to sound like a parent here (really, i'm sorry) but you're only fifteen. I remember when I was 15 (I'm 18 now) and I thought I knew exactly what I was ready for, but I was completely wrong. You are going to mature so much in the next few years; don't throw anything away on this guy.

I have no way of telling how he feels about you, but you REALLY need to think hard about this before you jump into anything. Please give yourself time to grow up, you'll be thankful for it later. I know I was. Hopefully this doesn't sound like a pretentious sermon, but seriously, make sure you know what you're getting into.

Posted by Ashley on Sunday, 09/23/07 - 11:28pm

Ashley is completely right. You will, however, follow the temporary feelings of your heart no matter what anyone says anyway.

But you asked: His career should be ruined. There's a reason he doesn't want your cousin to know. There's a reason you feel you have to sneak out to see him. There's a reason why he drove you home after ten minutes of conversation after "HE FINISHED." Who got off the first time you "hooked up"---when he was drunk, of course? Are you going to date other boys?--After all, he doesn't want you to just hang around for him thinking that you and he alone will be exclusive.
I'am glad he lets you talk and gives you more attention than the average 16 year old boy would. It shows signs of some level of maturity on his part so you know there's hope for him. His behavior is quite predicatable for a young man with little self-control. His feelings can clearly be ascertained just from the information you gave above: You to him are nothing more than a handjob or a blowjob at best until you become of age, after which time you shall become a playful piece of ass.
Is that what you want?

Posted by another guy on Monday, 09/24/07 - 2:55am

As a boy your age, I wouldn't advise this in the least. I've seen too many broken hearts over adult-minor relationships. I realize this isn't what you want to hear, but it's just my advice.

Posted by meh on Monday, 09/24/07 - 3:09pm

DON'T HOOK UP WITH YOU!!! LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS' ADVICE. HE IS WAY TOO OLD. PLEASE DONT DO IT. IT WILL RUIN YOURRR LIFEEE. FIND ANOTHER GUY YOUR AGE AT YOUR SCHOOL!

grrrr dont do it!!!!


hes the devil!

Posted by omg on Tuesday, 09/25/07 - 4:40pm

I Think That It Is Fine I Am !5 And Have Hooked Up With Way Older 20 Years Almost You Cant Help Who You Fall For.xxx

Posted by coco15 xx on Monday, 11/5/07 - 6:27pm

DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am a 22 year old girl and I know all about 21 year old boys. DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by dontdoit on Monday, 11/19/07 - 11:54pm

HAHAHA the funny thing is im in the same problem sorta thing right now...i love my biy and hes 21...im 15...id say be careful but if you, yourself really like him go for it...just be careful..i was lucky with mine to find someone who cares and loves me..oxox

Posted by Pamela on Thursday, 01/31/08 - 8:27am

trust me, all he wants to do is bend you over and pound that sweet little 15 year old puss.
i mean how could anyone resist?

Posted by smittywerbenjagermanjensen on Sunday, 04/20/08 - 3:09pm

she hooked up with her own COUSIN!hahaha!

Posted by peo on Sunday, 04/20/08 - 3:30pm

Umm No shes didnt she hooked up with her cousins MATE..

Ok Hun me and you are in the same boat.

My brothers best friend is 20,(lets call him Bob for now) and im 15. At my brothers wedding, bob and I did silly little things to get at my Dad.

We grinded it on the dance floor, huked up for a photo, etc. He was keen for it though. Later that nite we were mighty drunk and he wanted me to sit next to him on the bus back to the hotel.

Since then, every party he wants to dance with me, and last nite he was drunk, but sat next to me on the couch nd put his arm round me and stuff.

Im not sure if its the drinking, or if he has a thing for me, but if anything happened between us i would DEFINATELY not want my brother to know.

I knda know that he just wants to "smack that all on the floor", and hes so hot i would bang him too lol. But these relationships dont last because its lust not love.

Let me know what happens and Ill keep you updated with my situation too. It should help us both.

Posted by Ella on Sunday, 05/18/08 - 7:41am

haha!she mated with her own cousin!hahaha!

Posted by peo on Sunday, 05/18/08 - 11:12pm

you gotta start fuckin sometime.May as well get started you sound like a little slut anyway

Posted by stevo on Wednesday, 05/21/08 - 8:52am

BABE!! I can't belive that he didn't Do u yet!!!
are u realy pretty or r u ugly? do u realy want to get pregnant at age 15? cause if u do ur out of ur mind!!

Posted by sam on Saturday, 05/24/08 - 9:23pm

Hay Girl Hay!! Ugh, nooooo!!!!!! I think he is just countin down the days till he think it right to DO U!!! Lay 'em off girl!!! dont be stupid guurrl be smart!!!

Posted by Sexy Sammy on Saturday, 05/24/08 - 9:29pm

Hon, don't be his 1 a.m. booty call, this is how he obviously sees you. Even though he makes you think he cares, it could be any female in your place. I'm sorry to tell you this, but you aren't mature enough to handle this.

He has already committed a crime by having any kind of sexual encounter with you. Tell him to get lost, maybe you'll hook up with him when you're 18.

Posted by anonymous on Tuesday, 06/24/08 - 2:28pm

"1 a.m. booty call"-- That is clearly way past her bedtime. 9 p.m. maybe, and NO LATER!

Posted by observer on Tuesday, 06/24/08 - 9:53pm