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im 17, my parents have been divorced for at least 12 years, both of them have had sexual relationships before, but i was much littler and didnt really get it so it didnt bother me at all. now my mum keeps talking about inviting her new boyfriend over for the night. im terrified by the prospect. the very idea freaks me out loads. if she comes home after a date with him and im awake, i cant sleep or relax at all until i have gone downstairs and checked that he's not here. i made the mistake of telling my mum that i couldnt sleep until i knew he wasnt there, she took the piss.
the insane thing? i've only met the guy once in the few months they've been dating and somehow both of them have decided that i dont like him from the 10 or so words we exchanged.
i feel terrible for being so immature.
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6 comments (post a new comment)You should give him a chance. Meet him, sleep with him, maybe suck him off or something. See how you like it...it might be ok.
Posted by Sleeper on Thursday, 01/24/08 - 7:34pm
wtf is Sleeper talking bout.
Posted by uggh on Thursday, 01/31/08 - 11:40am
Wow... Dumb as sleeper.
Anyway... I was like that too... when my mom dated...
But you should just be glad to be getting rid of her... My mom STOPPED dating and leeched onto me... I fucking hate it now... I wish she'd get out...
Get laid or something.
That's the only reason I wouldn't want him sleeping the night... cause I'd KNOW they were... scrumping...
Ick.
Posted by Lyric on Sunday, 03/2/08 - 4:49pm
You are not responsible for your moms relationship, they should not make you feel guilty about how you feel. It is not an immaturity issue on your part, but on theirs.
Posted by chris on Friday, 07/25/08 - 1:43pm
At the same time, it may also be hard because it may seem like he's replacing your father - and... well... no one really wants to picture their parents... doing what people do when the lights are off and the doors are closed...
Its a disturbing feeling, it really is. But, maybe you should really talk to your mom about it. It might clear a lot of things up.
Posted by Krys on Tuesday, 08/12/08 - 1:58pm
you aren't being immature, your mother has been a bad parent by not properly assimilating him and considering you as a factor of her dating life
you aren't to blame, reading it i felt just as anxious and upset
Posted by Aaron on Tuesday, 08/12/08 - 2:04pm