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Posted On Wednesday, December 5, 2007
My family does not talk to me much, I did a lot of stupid things in the past. When we do talk, it is always in an arguement. 5 years ago my daughter died a few months after she was born, and subsequently my wife and I seperated because of this. To this day my family does not know that I had a child, nor do they know of her death. I want to tell them, but at the same time I don't want the wound to be opened up again.
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2 comments (post a new comment)i think you should do what you think is best...maybe its best for you if you keep it to yourself...i know they have a right to know..but if you feel deep down that you dont want them to know then dont let them know....good luck in whatever choice! hope i was help!
Posted by a helping friend on Wednesday, 12/5/07 - 4:29pm
Sometimes our family is not always the best thing for us. Healing takes time and it takes effort on both sides. You admit you did some 'stupid things' and now your family does not talk to you much. You want comfort from them over the loss of your daughter but are afraid it will only end in more blame. It's time to talk to someone who is impartial in the whole subject- like a counselor.
Posted by d on Thursday, 12/6/07 - 11:40am