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Posted On Sunday, December 9, 2007
I'm married and in love with someone else. We haven't done anything about it and No we haven't had sex either. She's married also...she loves me and I love her what should we do? We used to be lovers in high school about 15 yrs ago and have re-connected after about 10yrs of not seeing each other....would it work? I know there are many other people out there that feel the same way and have probably followed their hearts. Did it work out for you? Would love to hear your stories.
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4 comments (post a new comment)I could've written this. What you do is nothing. You both made vows to other people. Following your heart in this case is just selfish.
Posted by same on Sunday, 12/9/07 - 3:42am
If you really want your marriages to work, stop seeing her and wondering ..."What if..." Put that energy in your own marriages.
Posted by side observer on Sunday, 12/9/07 - 7:32pm
you're not in highschool anymore. That was a more innocent time- you're not looking at a relationship with her, you're looking at what it REPRESENTS. Regroup, reposition and reignite the passion with the wife you have. If you have daughters, be like the man you would want her to marry- would you want your daughter with a man who would leave her over an old highschool crush? If you have sons, be like the man you would want your sons to be. Would you be proud of the son who jumped ship on his kids for an old highschool flame? BE the example, the energy you want to bring into this life.
Posted by d on Monday, 12/10/07 - 11:07am
i agree with d. and no, that is not me.
lol, that rhymes
Posted by D on Sunday, 10/26/08 - 9:04pm