your hymen (mucous membrane, basically the thing you have to get through in order to "pop your cherry") may be thicker then other girls, this is something you need to go to the doctor about, they can break it surgically.

if this isnt the case, and youre sure its not, it might just be your first time, it hurts quite a bit to some girls, try relaxing, a lot of forplay, and just have fun. theres nothing worse then tense sex.

if it goes okay with this advice, over time (if you continually stay sexually active) it will become more relaxed, and the pain will be completely absent.

Posted by it happens to a lot of girls on Tuesday, 12/18/07 - 2:20pm

what is your age? it might have to do with other factors..depending on your age?

Posted by LADY G on Tuesday, 12/18/07 - 2:25pm

guys can be very.."eager."
ask him to slow down a bit. also, relax! concentrating on how much it hurts is only going to make you tense up more.
i know personally that it's easier said than done though. i've been sleeping with this guy for 5 months and it still hurts a bit every once and a while cause i have issues relaxing.

Posted by hmm on Friday, 12/21/07 - 6:07pm

Do you regularly ride horses?

A friend of mine has had this problem for many years. Doctors told her it was because of her passion for horse riding. The muscles in her vagina and pelvic floor had become "super pumped"! like a bodybuilder on the inside...
The problem was exaggerated by her anticipation of painfull sex.
Doctors prescribed her a dilation device similar to a tapered dildo.

Have you considered getting a dildo / vibrator?
These are fun but could also help you with your problem by stretching you and getting you used to the feeling of being penetrated.

Just an idea...

Posted by Petey on Saturday, 12/22/07 - 3:18pm

Foreplay and Lube and you'll be okay!

Posted by B on Tuesday, 11/11/08 - 2:23am

retard.

Posted by dewey on Tuesday, 11/11/08 - 6:33pm