ok, so we've been going out for a good 10 months now, we're totally in love and i've never felt like this about anyone before. we've done pretty much everything sexually and its not like im not comfortable around him because we've known eachother forever.
but still, i'm hardly ever turned on, it takes me forever to get in the mood then most of the time it takes me ages to orgasm, whatever we're doing.
i mean, he's the first guy ive ever done anything sexual with but ive never been that horny ever.
i just dont get how i can love someone so much but not be turned on by them. i just want to enjoy what we do.
does anyone else feel like they just arent that much of a sexual being?

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3 comments (post a new comment)Shut the fuck up EEB!! honey, it's all rite. i feel like that sumtimes to! Idk why, it just feels like nobody "turns me on" it could be worse!!!
Posted by bob on Sunday, 05/25/08 - 2:43pm
another stupid "bob".why is everyone named bob so fucking stupid?
Posted by peo on Wednesday, 06/18/08 - 12:30am
It is not so much a sign of bad sex, but mainly a sign of approaching depression.
keep in mind also that women and men peek sexually at different times.
In both cases, esp. Bob's, I suspect imminent depression.
Posted by Wishing you both well on Wednesday, 06/18/08 - 2:21am