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Posted On Tuesday, April 1, 2008
so i've been friends with this guy for a while and i've always thought he was fun to be around and even though i am attracted to him, i never told him or did anything because at the time he had a gf. he's now engaged to her and this past weekend, we'd been joking around and then he texted me (very flirty) and it kind of escalated more and more into sex talk and he ended up coming over and we made out and had oral sex. we've both said that we'd never tell anyone it happened. then a few days later, we were texting more and he came over again and we had sex. it was so awesome - we've got great sexual chemistry, but HE'S GETTING MARRIED! I know he loves his fiancee and he wants to marry her, but I can't help but think something's wrong with his relationship with her if he pursued this with me. I feel really bad though, what if I screwed up his relationship with her forever? And now, I can't stop thinking about him. I've decided to not engage in any more of this...it's just feels wrong...but also good at the same time. Any advice?
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3 comments (post a new comment)wow, you have no idea how similiar my situation is.
First of all, if he REALLY loved his fiance he wouldnt dare risk losing her especially at a time like this! And i agree with you, there IS something wrong with that relationship. I think getting out of it is the right thing for you to do right now. He needs to make up his mind.
OO another thing, don't worry too much about YOU screwing up his relationship because it takes two people to have sex.
Posted by Bridget on Tuesday, 04/1/08 - 11:02pm
Yeah, he probably doesn't love his fiance, but he certainly doesn't love you either. Sounds like he's trying to pretend to himself that married life will be just the same as single life, and he can screw whoever he wants. My advice to you is to steer well clear. The sex is so good because it's forbidden, but just imagine how hurt you'd be if the man you loved was scewing around. Also, almost all women get attached to a man they sleep with regularly, and you really don't want a guy like that to have the power to hurt you xx
Posted by Chrissy on Monday, 04/21/08 - 4:16pm
You should tell his fiancee. She deserves to know before she commits her life to this guy.
Posted by Evo on Tuesday, 06/3/08 - 3:43pm