i know my boss is into porn. i've found it in his computer at work when I was asked to install a new monitor. the other day his palm pilot was wide open and blinking. i had to go in there to set a paper down on his desk and i see (what i assume) to be his adult friend finder ID. problem is he's one of those "upstanding influential perfect citizens with the perfect marriage". I used to go on adult FF a few years ago so I was really curious as to what his profile looked like knowing what kind of site it can be. i grabbed a sticky note and wrote the id down. i brought it home and told my fiance to try and find him. instead my fiance tried to start hacking his account which sent emails to his personal email saying the requests came from our IP. great. I am worried his wife will open the email and be like "what's this" and log on with his stuff and find out all about his other world and then they get divorced. None of this has happened yet, and I think if a week goes by and nothing happens or he doesn't come in and ask me how to find out who belongs to a particular IP I think am in the clear. He could just disregard the email and delete it. But I have been making myself sick with worry over this - not sleeping, racing thoughts and heart, etc. I don't know if something this extreme occurred would I tell the truth? I am sure i would get fired. I know I was nosy and took it too far but curiosity got the best of me. My fiance says not to worry so much about it but it's hard when it's my ass and not his! Sigh. It's Friday morning before work and this happened late Tuesday night. I know as of yesterday afternoon he hadn't checked his personal email yet, and I don't even know if his wife would ever even log on. I figure if I make it until Wednesday and nothing strange happens I'm in the clear. I guess you never realize how one stupid thing could turn into something huge.