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Posted On Monday, May 5, 2008
basically, i met this guy and i was really high at the time but i knew i likedd him. we started friendly flirtin and he took down my number. he called me the next day and picked me up in his car and we were sitting outside...in the car. we were just chilling and cracking jokes and gettin high and it was a fantastic time. he always useto call me and we linked up on a another occasion outside my house. the third time he called me he didnt show up and the fourth and the fifth. i shouted at him and told him its not okay to treat people like shit. he would always apologise and we would make up. we are not oging out and he thinks im 15. he said to me that if i go back home(I LIVE IN A CAREHOME) and go back to school then i could be his girlfriend. i really really like this boy, two days ago he called me and made it sound like he really was coming to see me and when the time came ihe wouldnt answer any of my fonecalls, and he didnt show up. last night he called me on my fone and as soon as i answered he put the fone down. i told him to leave me in a text but i really like this guy and he admitted to me that because of my age he feels uncomfortable...please tell me what should i do? i beg u don lecture me because i live in a caRE HOME AND GET soooo MUCH OF THAT STUFF.please help mee
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3 comments (post a new comment)ok although i want to lecture you i wont. i had the same thing happen to me when i was 14. i met this guy i thought i loved and he was about 18 or 19. Not only did he feel akward about it but so did everyone else in the world. i basically snuck out to see him, so no one would know, and i constantly reassured him it was ok to like someone younger. In the end all he wanted was sex, but i never gave it to him. All i have to say is dont let him manipulate you in any way but if you really like this guy, dont give up. But then again dont let him keep treating you like an shit either. Maybe ignore some of his phone calls. Let him know you wont always be around
Posted by R on Monday, 05/5/08 - 5:59pm
Dont be with him. He is playing you. Value yourself. You are special. You deserve someone who is going to treat you right and not leave you looking stupid.
Dont put up with it. Leave him. Like he does you
Posted by josi on Monday, 05/5/08 - 7:19pm
Stand up for yourself. I have learned from experience that if a boyfriend ignored you once, he will do it again. I just broke up with my boyfriend last week for this exact reason, and he honestly did not realize what he was doing to me and how much he was hurting me until he lost me. It sucks, and I miss him every single day, and I wish it didn't have to come to that. I haven't been eating or sleeping, and I feel like total shit, but I need to be respected. I deserve to be respected, and so do you. Women in this world put up with a lot of garbage. We constantly sell ourselves short, and it has to stop. You are so young and beautiful. You deserve someone who is going to treat you like you are the only person in the world. Please please please, respect yourself and stand up for yourself.
Posted by Bella on Monday, 05/5/08 - 11:25pm