He doesn't know

Perhaps you could show him how he needs to help you out. Do you think he would think less of you?-- Hardly, I'm sure he'd respect you even more for your honesty and attempt to enhance your sex life. He would enjoy knowing his wife is, perhaps, much more sexual than he ever thought. It would be tragic if he caught you, then he would know you were a liar. Should you, then, expect him to trust you with other things? It usually draws you closer and changes your relationship for the better.

Posted by spouse should be your best friend on Wednesday, 07/9/08 - 5:02pm

I completely understand what you mean. I've been masturbating since I was 13 and it always feels SO much better than with another person. I hate that I can't tell my wife (although I HAVE tried), I love her so much, but she would never understand. Maybe it will help you to know you are not the only one.

Posted by Know How You Feel.. on Wednesday, 07/9/08 - 9:12pm

I'm sure that he would think it was hot and like it but I see no reason I should tell him. I like that it's my secret!!!

Posted by original poster on Monday, 08/4/08 - 2:59pm

Why did you lie in the first place? What man would feel offended knowing his girlfriend touches herself? And who DOESN'T prefer masturbation over partner sex? I mean, you know exactly what you want and how you want it. Unless you're dating a mind-reader, you're not going to be 100% satisfied all the time. Are we to assume your boyfriend doesn't masturbate himself? Heck I started masturbating at a way younger age than you, and my boyfriend couldn't give a crap.

Posted by jajajajajajaja on Tuesday, 07/14/09 - 2:44am

There's absolutely nothing wrong with masterbating and it's a great little cardio workout.

Posted by Toma on Monday, 08/24/09 - 10:11am