Rape

Sad but true is the fact that she probably was raped. Some girls..in fact most girls who are raped at some point in their life get a messed up point of view on sex. It changes how they think feel and react to sex. Alot of girls will become primiscuous and sleep around alot because they want to feel wanted or secure or because they truly belive sex = love. Other girls will become afraid of intimacy and sex and will pull away from any physical contact with people. And then there are others who end up with a very twisted perception of sex and will ask their boyfriend to pretend to rape them. Just be supportive and loving and show her that you love her even without sex. Make her feel special and pretty and wanted and put sex on the back burner for a bit.

Posted by * Moi * on Monday, 02/8/10 - 10:02pm

fuck her like she wants to be fucked.

She's working things through in a sexual context. However make sure that she understands that u won't leave her even though she is damaged goods at best.

She is scared that u'll leave or that you'll stay n hurt her. Over time if u don't do either of these she may be healed n u two will be happy.

but there is no guarantee

Posted by aslkfj on Wednesday, 02/10/10 - 2:47am

Thanks guys for the advice. I've decided to refrain from sex altogether untill she get's some help. It's hard! Excuse the pun.

Posted by Poster on Thursday, 02/11/10 - 7:26am

No need to struggle that way, Poster, I'll "soften" you up until she's back in service.

Posted by YNN on Thursday, 02/11/10 - 10:56pm